I Am Thinking About Moving Barns, What Should I Tell My Trainer When I Break The News To Her???
There is a lot of drama going around my horse farm, and i a sick of it. Part of the reason is cause i always end up in the middle of it. So i am think i might move barns. What should i tell my trainer if i do end up moving barns, without hurting her feelings. Because it is not because of the trainer, it is just other people who ride there. Please Help Me 
I had this happen when I was younger. Make sure you really check out the new barn cause there seems to be a lot of drama at most barns…especially when it’s a show barn! Anyway, if you find somewhere where you think you’ll be more comfortable, then talk to her about it. I’m sure she’ll understand and might even have suggestions to make things better where you are now before you move!
Good luck!
Tell her exactly what you just said. Tell her that you don’t want to move barns, but don’t need this drama in your life. You don’t have to put up with the drama, and you shouldn’t have to.
Let her know that you are happy with her and the way she does things, but the other people there are not the people you want to be around.
Tell her the people there make too many problems with their drama and that it upsets you. If you tell her it upsets you and causes problems in your life, then she should be understanding of your feelings.
Also, if the drama really has nothing to do with you, but you end up in the middle of it, tell those dramatic people that you are NOT a part of it, you don’t want to be a part of it and to handle their own problems and to leave you out of it!
Tell her that.
Sounds good to me, I wouldn’t be offended.
Maybe she could give your lessons at the new barn.